Tuesday, November 19, 2013

No Respect

The holiday season has been creeping up on us since November 1st. I think it's kind of sad that as soon as Halloween is over, Christmas starts (and I say Christmas because I don't see very many menorahs out this time of year). There is no recognition for Thanksgiving in America, even though that should be the most celebrated holiday because it represents the fact that the pilgrims made peace with the Native Americans, and settled here for the first time in harmony. Thanksgiving is also a time to be thankful for all of the things (materialistic or not) that we have in our lives. The fact that the Christmas season starts immediately after Halloween I feel is partially to blame all of the department stores. They immediately start putting out holiday decorations and play holiday tunes in their store. Suddenly the average consumer is overwhelmed with red and green and "Christmas cheer" that Thanksgiving goes unnoticed until the actual day of. 
There is no respect for the turkey!! I also don't think it's very helpful that there are minuscule Thanksgiving decorations, but that doesn't mean people have to just skip the holiday? At least wait until December to spread you're Christmas cheer. PLEASE. 
I also find it quite ironic that after we're done being thankful for what we have, our society goes to war at 3 in the morning for material things because "they have to get the deals". Quite sad actually. Ya know, most of the deals go on for the day. Most of them end around 2 or 3 pm and there is still a lot of things in the store. AND, you don't have to run into all the crazy ass people in the morning because they came, they saw, they took, and they went home at 6 in the morning. So here's an idea, get up at say, 7 or 8, and then mosey you're way through the stores. I promise you will have a much more relaxing Black Friday.
So in summary: respect the turkey, ease up on Christmas, and go Black Friday shopping at 8 in the morning instead of 3.  

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Whore.

The human mind is an amazing place that scientists know much about. However, there is still so much to learn. What I don't get is specifically how a girl's brain works. What is the difference in a female's mind that thinks certain things are okay or how emotional they get or how much drama they engulf themselves in. I've always wondered this but the thought was brought up to me specifically because of my roommate.
I'm not going to beat around the bush--she's a whore. Now, before you say "but Sam, you have to look at her point of view and understand how she feels," I will tell you that it is physically impossible for me to comprehend how any of her actions are okay in my brain. This is what goes down: she talks to a guy for about 2-5 days. Once she has sex with them, she has zero contact with them. Now, I live at a small college, so she does encounter these guys frequently. She'll pass them and won't even look at them. This creates an awkward situation for me because I have befriended about half of them. Now, I won't necessarily go and hang out with them by myself but I'll have a conversation with them if we're with some of our friends. Still, the fact that hours after she has sex with someone she's done with them baffles me. I'm not going crazy, right? Like, this isn't normal to do.
She made a timeline of her feelings with a guy (kind of like stages of a relationship but how she feels about them), and called it the love line. She wrote it out and keeps it and often shows me where she's at with her flavor of the week.
At one point she was past the "line of feelings that can't be turned off" and she had sex with the guy, and literally 2 hours after she was done talking to him and about him. So far she's slept with 4 guys here and it's only been 2.5 months since we've been at college. She's tried to get with more than that. I think around 8 or 9. At one point she had a different guy sleep in our room with her every night. It was a little excessive.
There was and still is one guy that she has lead on so hard. He's a sweet guy and I can tell she's the only thing he's ever had, whatever that is. He really likes her but she's not giving him any, meanwhile when they took a "break" (I guess that's what we could call it, but they weren't really dating in the first place), she fucked another dude. It's so sad because he's getting his heart broken and she's just a whorey bitch.
I can't comprehend what must go through her mind. How she can be so manipulative. I just hope she doesn't screw any nice guys over. I think it's kind of ironic that she has a spot for guys that have screwed her over, but not one for all the guys that she's screwed over. Anyway, that's my two sense. I needed to vent out my thoughts and feelings about my whore-of-a-roommate.
God, I feel like such a bitch. Oh, well. She's done this to herself. Until next time!